...when the person you are interested in getting to know better doesn't seem to even want to talk to you, much less want to get to know YOU better too.
...when the job you are qualified for doesn't even net you an interview, much less an offer of employment.
...when you stand up and give your testimony of your journey into better health in front of 200plus people, and then three years later weigh 20 pounds more than you did back then.
...when you realize that you aren't in contact with almost everyone whose wedding you've ever been a bridesmaid in.
...when you find your first gray hair, even if it's in your eyebrow.
...when you used to be an all-star softball player and due to a torn rotator cuff, now can't do more than underhand the ball to someone.
...when your brother asks if you want to be a "nun or something" and all you can do is smile.
...when you walk around the grocery store with a calculator so you don't go even a cent over your food budget for the week.
...when you get a letter from the city saying you'll be fined if you don't weed wack the weeds in the alley behind your house.
...when you've been in a position of leadership, and now you're not even in the game, much less leading anything.
Oh, blessed life, how you always serve to keep us humble.