Thursday, June 14, 2007


I am pondering the age-old "When Harry Met Sally" question today about whether single men and women can be friends.

If you have never seen this movie it is the story of Harry and Sally who meet and dislike each other at first but through circumstances meet up again and quickly develop a friendship. In the movie they are attracted to each other and in the end, they end up getting married. The answer in the movie seems to be: as long as there is no attraction, it is possible but the moment attraction enters the picture, it is impossible.

In college I had tons of male, single friends, and as I have gotten older, and so many of my friends have gotten married and busy, the number of male friends I have has dwindled. I have missed having a male perspective on life issues. This is one of the things I most love about working at the office: I am surrounded by men! It has been a bit refreshing to have that male perspective. And, having gone so long without those type of friendships, I am pleasantly refreshed by these new friendships.

After all, we are made in God's image: both male and female. Without both perspectives in our lives we are missing out on aspects of His character!

1 comment:

  1. Hey there Beautiful!

    Thanks for sharing your honest reflection. I agree with the H met S point. Such interesting dynamics we find ourselves in as single women. Funny, I remember the years when I whined over wanting male friendships. Now that I have them, I find myself saying at times "boy this is complicated!" I desire to be married some day of course, but I am enjoying the friendships that I have that it's not as big of a "sting" as it was years ago having no male friends. Does that make sense? So, thanks for your honesty. Love you to pieces!!